Sin (fornication) saved his life from the Dana air crash. His wife dropped him at the airport in Abuja to Board Dana airline claiming to go to Lagos. A few minutes later he pinged his wife claiming he has boarded & later switched off his phone. He turned back to sleep in his mistress' house there in Abuja and never actually boarded. After the crash, the wife and the whole family were already crying and thinking of going to Lagos to claim his body. He appeared and gave this confession. If you were his wife what will your reaction be? Omo which kain question is what will you do? I will forgive him na, go and thank the mistress (jokes) and warn her make she no try am again oh ehn! Life saving something.
Lol; tnx to Omoyeni Disu
I will be grateful for his life but it will be over
ReplyDeleteI dont know why Nigerians turn everything to joke and crude one for that matter. Thats why we are were we are . MESSED up country
ReplyDeleteLol. Forgiving fully
ReplyDeleteNigerians always make a joke of everything! Mind boggling and distrubing .
ReplyDelete***Probably a part of d reason change eludes us.
I don't have a choice than to forgive him
ReplyDeleteI will sharply forgive him. In fact i will thank the woman
ReplyDeleteI'd have wished he was on d flight cos I wouldn't have known he's a cheater...I don't forgive cheats and yes!I'm married so I know what I'm talkn about.he woulda been better off dead
ReplyDeleteYou say what??? Come on now! Haba
Deletestraight baby, he's gud as dead
DeleteI agree. He's as good as dead. Before he transmits killer disease to the wife.
DeleteFunny
ReplyDeleteI will scream for joy, hug and kiss him, tell his mistress 'thankyou' then prepare the couch for him where he will sleep until our kids move out of the house.
ReplyDeleteOh Ladun pls! This story has been recycled over and over again. It was not based on the Dana flight abeg. I first heard about this even b4 the bellview crash.
ReplyDeleteAnyhow let's say it did happen I'd thank God for his cheating ass and then kiss his ass good bye!
Better dead than his infidelity exposed? *raising my eyebrow* Different strokes, I guess.
ReplyDelete@Lolacious u are a very Big ode and olee jankoriko. U dont love your husband one bit (and i pray he gets to know)How can u even wish him dead? Patapata, u go talk say u go divorce am. The infidelity factor isnt the MAIN reason u are mad, its cos u are bitter u wont be getting the (US100, 000 Dollars)16M Naira compensation. May God save us and expose awon oloriburuku, 2 left legged wives ohh. oshisko.Oya Reply n lemme finish u. -Wale
ReplyDeleteHonestly Wale am a woman but in shock when I read her comment, honestly she is a dangerous woman that we kill her husband soon!!!
DeleteI totally agree with Lolacious...he had better been dead!
DeleteI totally agree with Lolacious...he had better been dead!
DeleteAt this point nothing can ever matter to me. All i want is my husband
ReplyDeleteI will forgive him but that will be the end of that marriage, I can't deal with a cheating husband. I am already hypertensive and I don't want to die so I will prefer he leaves on his own or I will end up killing him myself. Do you know the danger and damage ADULTERY does to a marriage?
ReplyDeleteAdultery kills,hypertension,u don't wanna feel that.I am now cos of my marriage and her infidelity.thank God I have moved on now
DeleteI can never forgive that type of a man because I will feel my intimacy with him has been compromised.
ReplyDeleteI will forgive him but that will be the end of that marriage, I can't deal with a cheating husband. I am already hypertensive and I don't want to die so I will prefer he leaves on his own or I will end up killing him myself. Do you know the danger and damage ADULTERY does to a marriage?
ReplyDeleteAll you bitch out here lying; gosh you make me want to vomit. You want to end your marriage because your husband confessed he cheated on you. You must be WHITE. If you are an African no one will teach you before you commit suicide. First marriage, you are out, second you are, until you get to the 1oth and kill yourself, bloody liars.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind them, if check them now you their bosses in the office is fucking them.
DeleteThank u so much hun for this comment. Senseless lairs acting as if if he comes begging u won't accept his apology n spread ur legs for his rod to enter again. Don't know y some pple r never real.....
DeleteHonestly am a woman but I feel you! U want to end ur marriage bcos he cheats on u, come on now, they are real liars!! Love love love your comment!! Most sensible comment so far!!!
Deleteme i will forgive him oo n love him more but we will deal wit d issue at hand sha.
ReplyDeleteforgive him thank God and thnk the woman fa...
ReplyDeleteI will forgive and even forget sef because he is alive.
ReplyDeletei will hug him
ReplyDeleteU ppl r bunch of clowns. How can u leave ur husband 4 a scare crow and u r lying 2 urselfs. N 4 d lady who said she would have preffered her hubby 2 have crashed u are a bastard n a witch at it. If u were 2 b my bro's wife I n my mother will evacuate u from my bro's house can't u think of something less..smh 4 u. There's a popular yoruba saying "omo eni o ni buru ju ka fi fun eku je"
ReplyDeleteYou are a dumb ass fu*k. So you and your yeye mother would Chase a wife out of her home because you feel it is your brothers property...nonsense...in this time and age, did not think that was still happening....why don't you butt out of your brother and his family's business and face your own empty lives.... illiterate. Do you not realise whatever they have is jointly owned?....twart.
DeleteLadun Ladun Ladun? How many times did I call you? Dis ya story take style get k-leg. Too much super-story huh? Issorai
ReplyDeleteLol I thot I was d only one thinking same
DeleteUrban legend has taken a Nigerian dimension... This tale has been around for ages , and comes up after every major disaster...
ReplyDeleteLol @ 'I n my mother will evacuate u from my bro's house'
ReplyDeleteI will be grateful to God to ve spared his life, & then forgive him & pray that God touches his heart thru the incident to change frm his sinful ways
ReplyDeleteTruth be told I won't forgive dat man cos dat was a very stupid tin to do,u made her drop u off @ the airport nd lied to her that u had boarded,haba that was jus too much. He is better off dead he sholud have jus stayed with d mistress!!
ReplyDeleteI don't blame the woman that wishes the man died.. Why are men not satisfied? Do u know that some men will still cheat and not learn lessons? That is a betrayal only God can heal.. I'm sure the wife would feel stupid for taking the man to the airport in the first place. Do u think if the woman knew her husband was cheating she would hav cried after the plane crash? For sure that marriage can never be the same again.
ReplyDeleteLive and let live! Let everything that has breathe praise the Lord.
ReplyDeletei probably wont forgive him...the outcome could have been HIV. this is a rare situation whereby cheating yielded a postivie outcome. we all know that more likely than not, its either he gioves the other chic belle, leave his wife, or come home with HIV. abeg...let's stop the denial crap. such a man does not have hsi wife's interest at heart
ReplyDeleteStupid Man...he should have gone into hiding, collected the $30K from Dana then given it to his wife as "sorry dear" gift.
ReplyDeleteI kant beliv de man actually told his wife de truth. He shd hv just sed he forgot samtin important for de trip in his ofis so he missed his flight and had to camp in de hotel for a different flight. De wife wld hv called it a miraculous escape n tnk God everyday. Now bcos he spoke de truth see wat he wil b goin tru. Kai.
ReplyDeleteIT DEPENDS ON THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN A HUSBAND AND WIFE.
ReplyDeleteTHE BOTTOM LINE, AFTER EVERYTHING IS THAT SHE CAUGHT HER HUSBAND CHEATING. THE CIRCUMSTANCES SURROUNDING HIS ADULTERY MAY NOT BE TOO RELEVANT 10 YEARS DOWN THE LINE.
IT IS THE HUSBAND THAT WILL 'KNOW' THAT SOME MISTRESS 'SAVED' HIS LIFE
Why wud u divorce ur husband cos he cheated on u or wish he died? Men cheat. There is hardly one that don't,if u find out ur hubby is cheating,take it to God in prayer and ur husband wud be delivered.. If u divorce him and go for the next man,who told u he won't cheat on u.. Women wise up.. Even whites don't leave there hubby's any more cos he's cheating...
ReplyDeleteYeah and women cheat too....I did once when my hubby beat me blue black and abused me emotionally for years..... did not like it, did not enjoy it, just wanted a shoulder to cry on and the bloke took advantage.... I am not really sorry cos he'd cheated a lot and his yeye family were telling me at least he did not bring the women home....imagine..... well he's changed now and so we are happy with the kids.... end of.
DeleteLadun so u didn't post my comment because I said its not a true story abi? I said this story came out even before the belview crash how many years ago.......so like I said in my previous post which u didn't publish I would thank God for his sorry ass and then kiss that same sorry ass to the curb. Let him stew a bit then we can take it from there.
ReplyDeleteIt is human 2 err n divine 2 forgiv. D idiots wishing d man had died in d crash r morons. N yes, they r only bitter cos dey won't b getin d compensation. Fine, d man cheated but it ws a blessing in disguise.I tink dey shd b grateful 2 God for using d mistress 2 save his life!
ReplyDelete@Lalacious Wow is all i can say.
ReplyDeleteFor me i will forgive him,i don't pray to lose my husband or any close person.I cry whenever i see obituary anywhere,strangers not to talk of someone i know,my husband?God forbid.Its gonna be painful though and d other woman had better be very afraid.
@Wale easy now haba that is too much,be a man.
Men are by nature cheaters..My motor is "Do you, but if you come back home with something , I will KILL you"
ReplyDeleteAdultery should be a crime. I would rather be a widow than have a cheating husband. Who says he wont eventually throw me out and marry his "saviour". At least if the lying cheating s.o.b. dies the will be money to take care of my children.
ReplyDeleteStop this rubbish of better to be unhappily married than to be single, divorced or widowed.
I am a Nigerian woman married to a Nigerian man, and after our introduction I stood up and told both families that i would stand by him no matter the disease or infirmity or starvation or homelessness but that the day he raises his hand to hit me or cheats on me i will not only leave him i would punish him.
We are 11 years strong.
Whoever wishes to remain with a cheat can do so but i wont.
Lwkmd..u just haven't caught him yet*RME*
DeleteDon't mind d ignorant fool
DeleteI am sure a lot of the women who say they cant leave because of adultery will definitely leave when there is poverty.
ReplyDeleteTo each his own. We all have our limits no need to insult anyone.
Wura learn to say the truth
ReplyDeleteWell, for those saying they will forgive him, not that I won't anyway.
ReplyDeleteNow, I am here thinking " what if he has contracted something deadly as a result of this singular act? after forgiveness, you start struggling to conquer other demons.
It would have been a bit decent of you to have acknowledged this as a cooked up story and not real, emotions are still very raw over the crash people, it has only been 5 days. Like someone said this story has been around for ever, please find something else to increase your blog traffic.
ReplyDeleteThis is distasteful. In light of ho many souls were lost... there is no room for such jokes.
ReplyDeleteThis is why men will continue to cheat because of Nigerian women's mentality and yes those that accept cheating will leave him if he has no money. If is sad I feel sorry for you. Infact any woman that accepts cheating deserves HIV, a man to have a child outside and for him to leave her. U met a man married, he actually told me he wanted me to have his child. I said over my dead body. Men need to be put in check if u as a woman continue to remove your eyes, he will be excited by something else outside. So you all should really wise up cheating should not be accepted.
ReplyDeleteYes cheating hurts and really bad but do you know HOW MUCH or WHAT PEOPLE WILL GIVE to have those family members who died in that crash back? I didnt know anyone on that flight but everytime I have seen pictures, Ihave prayed and wish they could just wake up and go back to their loved ones. Have you seen the anguish on the faces of those who knew people on that flight. I have friends who have hit major depression. Even I cannot function normally yet cos it was just too close for comfort. The people on that dreadful flight were our brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers, son, daughters, neighbors, friends, colleagues, schoolmates, pastors, imams, loved ones. How can you wish death on anyone. It is why people who condone boko haram scare me cos no matter what, we should not be wishing death on the next man
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you flip the story and assume the man dropped off his wife who pretended to him that she was travelling to see her ailing sibling in Lagos..what should the man do?Bear in mind that in African culture and custom,adultery is tolerated more from the men folk than from the female specie.Infact there is an African wise crack that sticking with one woman kills the penis,smiles.
ReplyDeleteMy sister they are never real and this leaves me wondering why?
ReplyDeletePretenders all over the place. If you choose not to forgive him,your mother will ask you too and if you refuse she instantly becomes your enemy. Be real for once.
ReplyDeleteSome of you are jokers! Adultery is a reality....some will deal and others won't. Simple! But you won't know until you find urself in those shoes. As for me, if I truly loved my husband, I would forgive him and probably go to the mistress hug her and share tears as I understand we both love the same man. However, as I leave I will give her the scariest warning of her life that if she doesn't leave my husband, I will put a bullet in her heAd. Same for the man...short of scaring him to run to his saviour. But this is of course a scenario....you won't know what to do until you are faced with a similar reality.
ReplyDeletehe actually had no where other than his mistress house to go to.The journey was faked so I will handle him as a liar and cheat.I will also deal with the mistress for making him lie so he can spend days away from home in her nest.Why thank her? I will also forgive him in the end if he is truly repentant
ReplyDeleteThat a Nigeria cheat is not a big deal anymore ... Even d ones that love n pampewr ther wives still cheat ... So its almost like not a sin to me amore as long as he is not robbing it on my face ... 80% of Nigeria men cheat ... I dnt want to give myself headache or BP so I rest my case
ReplyDeleteTell em!
DeleteWura go n die etc ur hubby is cheating on u ... If u want to know look closely
ReplyDeleteSuch man deserves to die in the crash
ReplyDeleteCan't believe people are wishing people death. Really sad.
ReplyDeleteI know of someone who just got back with his wife. He said he was going to Abuja to do business. He ended up with his babe and died. Till today his widow says she's not angry with him and she'll always love him.
Jesus-Christ! Tough decision!
ReplyDeleteI'll be happy and thank God for his life. As for our married life don't know this is ultimate treachery na
for how long has he been doing this? I can't no longer trust him
Na wa 4 u Nigerians.Remember,d golden rule-do unto others what u want others to do unto u.I've been married for 7yrs now and any day I find out dat my husband cheated,I will give it back to him in a bigger dose....chikena....as a smart igbo babe,no dulling at all.....infact truth is dat I have been looking 4 an opportunity to move outside a little....LOLZ.....so why would I wish him dead?
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