Wednesday, November 7, 2012

UNILAG Student Hospitalised After Outing With Facebook Friend

A 21-year-old student has been hospitalised, after she was allegedly pushed down from the third floor of a building in  Lagos, following a disagreement with a man she met on the social network, Facebook.

The News Agency of Nigeria reports that Akabugu Nkiruka sustained multiple injuries, including a pelvis fracture, and was undergoing surgery at the General Hospital, Marina, Lagos, on Tuesday.

Nkiruka, a Linguistics student of the University of Lagos, told NAN on her hospital bed that she met the young man through the social media, barely a week before the November 1 incident.


She told NAN that the 26-year-old man (name withheld) last Wednesday invited her to a night club in Apapa from where they ended up in his family home at 1004 Estate, Victoria Island, Lagos.

She noted that the young man had earlier talked about sex on the phone prior to the outing but she told him she was menstruating.

Nkiruka said on getting to the house, the man tore her dress and tried to rape her.

According to Nkiruka, the man thereafter pushed her down from the third floor of the building because she refused to have sex with him.

When contacted, the man’s mother, who was at home on the night of the incident, however, told NAN that she was not aware of what happened.

She said she slept around 10pm, while the disagreement between the couple started much later.

The mother, who pleaded anonymity, said she paid part of the hospital bill immediately after Nkiruka was admitted, and even tried to transfer her to a private hospital.

“I took her as our own daughter and so, I can do anything that will make her recover quickly,’’ she added.

She insisted that her preliminary inquiry indicated that Nkiruka was not pushed by her son as alleged, but that she jumped on her own in the ensuing scuffle.

When contacted, the Divisional Police Officer of Bar Beach, Victoria Island, Lagos, Mr. Fayoade Adegoke, told NAN that Nkiruka wrote in her statement that she jumped on her own, in order to escape being raped.

Adegoke said he ordered his men to convey the victim to the hospital immediately after he was informed of the incident by security guards in the area.

The DPO said the suspect was released on bail, pending further investigation into the matter.

NAN recalls that seven young men, including two who met a 24-year-old post-graduate student, Cynthia Osokogu, on facebook, are currently facing trial for allegedly raping and killing her in Lagos earlier this year.

Source: Punch

86 comments:

  1. Meeting people on FB is just risky! Sad story! :|

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  2. Like she did not know what she was getting into when she followed him home , the outcry over Cynthia 's murder should have been a deterrent , but would these girls hear no , Thank God she is alive to tell a story , Thank God mumsy was able to foot the bill .
    Please respect yourself and go home , now your parents know what you do after school Runzs .

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    1. I tire o so she followed him to his house to read books abi?

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  3. People are just stupid! Shikena

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  4. Dont people ever learn from other people's mistake... wishing her safe recovery...

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  5. Some just never ever learn! I wish her quick recovery.

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  6. WONU: Hmmmm! Tins are happenin God will heal u

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  7. See all these cheap igbo girls looking for the easy life. Awon HOEloshi....I believe the story of her jumping down. Cos if he pushed her, she would have died instantly. Maybe she has been collecting, and she doesn't want to give. Nonsense people.

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    1. Bastard wot do u mean by cheap igbo gals must u add tribe to everything. U must be a castrated he goat who doesn't have roots ode

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    2. What has trib got to do with this..mumu..ur just hateing on igbos cos they are better off..if u don't no what to write why not shut up..ewu..

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    3. And u are an expensive asewo, I see. Foolish bigot

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    4. And that's how ur mother was cheap enough to give birth to you. Idiot!!! As useless as you are you can't comment without being tribalistic,Retarded fool.

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    5. Buhahahahahehehehehe see how they are shitting their pants....lmao. You lot are cheap and you know it. With ur potato legs, akpu arms and grassy armpits.... Even ur married women eg Gilda, are still in the trade. Shameless cunts. #okbye. gerrrooonnnniiiimmmmoooooooOooooOooooOOooooooOoooO

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    6. U r a retarded fowl...grow up!!!...Okpo

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  8. GURLZ GURLZ GURLZ,wil we eva learn? Cynthia's case is stil on,we've heard abt some oda issues like dis on different blogs,yet we stil find it very difficult 2 learn...aw can u b so dumb 2 go out @ nite n even follow a guy u barely knw to his haux? 'he talked abt sex on fone bt u tld him u were on' so u think afta spending on u @ d nite club,n even took u om,he's jst gonna lie on d bed & sing praises 2 ur ears abi? u dnt wnt sex n u wnt out alone wit him 2 a nite club n even followed him om,hin luk like ur pastor 4 church,wey go make am no touch u,abeg park wel joor...i wish u quick recovery sha,if God hlp u survive dis one,mke u carry urself again follow twitter or 2go fwend,shior

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    1. Lol@ slimzyose,step on stage babe.talk that talk.so after Cynthia's story,some people are still doing this.oh well thou shall not judge.@missyoyin,how are you?

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  9. Wat a sad story.girls should be careful.

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  10. Its just too bad,we already warn dis girls to be very careful

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  11. Wen will girls learn to be kiafl and cautious wen meetin strangers on sociall ntwrk? And must u follow whoeva home!! girls shd learn to stop lookin for cheap fun and if u must,Meet or transact ur biz,do it in open and safe places not in hotels and club houses!! Girls be kiafl and guys stop bn dogs on social ntwrk!!!

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  12. @Anon 08:07..i agree with you. Its better to set P on twitter!..lol

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  13. Hmm... Meeting boys online is now sumfin else o

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    1. As a mother of three children I think d issues r mixed up ere. Yes d girl shlnt hve followed d guy home, but d question I want to ask why our young men feel dat d only way to b intimate wth a girl is wth force. Remember his mother was at home sleeping. He wasn't even afraid dat his mother might wake up. The phone conversation betwn d two parties had already established dat d girl was not in d mood for sex, but d guy had other plans ' I will force her whether she like am or not'. So basically all you young girls shld realise dat No is d new word for yes. Because she didn't want to hve sex wth him she had to jump to escape his brutality, if the girl had been his sister, or his mother's child I bet you they wld b up in arms. Anyway dis is a lesson to all our young women, do not allow yourself to become a victim of abuse, if you do not knw him well enough to trust him wth your heart why do you want to trust him wth your womanhood. Any man dat has to use violence to get sex is an animal. So be careful whn you were small you were told to look right, look left then look right again before crossing d road. I think you shld apply dis to getting all busy under d sheets.

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    2. Wo madam, God will bless you for your response. We are busy blamingthe girl, the bastard nko? Shey what he did was good. This is why naija men act like animals. Because women are always willing to make excuses for them.

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  14. All these girls no dey hear word! Everyone wants to live in the fast lane,doing "big girl" things! She better thank her God that its not her skull that cracked open! Awon omo jatijati

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  15. What's wrong wit all dis stupid girls sef,will they ever learn from pple's mistake or re they waiting for it 2 happen to them before they will learn,FB,BBM,tw,2go,all of them re risky stop looking 4 awuf money if u know u can't give bck don't take!!!shekina

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  16. i'm a girl oo..but some girls sha.Later they would say men are this and that.She went to look for trouble na.shey she dint know what he was after when he invited her ni?Olodo girl.After what we hear in the news everyday.Thank God she's alive sha.

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  17. People never learn from someone mistake. The case of cynthia should have been a lesson to all this girls, but no, stil going out with unknown friends, God help them. Wish her quick recovery.

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  18. If you aren't ready for devil, don't go playing his games. You wanna meet a guy but refused what follows such meeting. Business gone wrong. You are lucky to be alive. Thanks to God.

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  19. Wow one has to b damn careful,weather on social media or not, d devil is everywhr says Nomzi

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  20. Stupid girl, she's lucky she didn't die. After following a strange man to a night club and his home, she didn't know sex will follow?

    And as for these indulgent mothers who allow their sons to bring random girls home, trouble knocks on your door.

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  21. Won't dis girls ever learn 4rm cynthia's story. U meet a guy online, go out with him n den go 2 his place n u tink he wnt want 2 have sex wit u? Hmm. Think again. Der r sum stories u hear n say 2urself "dat can't happen 2 me. Not bcos ur beta or anytin but cos it just can't. N yes am a woman. Oma Baby

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  22. Stupid girl. U no wan do but u follow am go home. Hissing. I'm happy ure alive 2 tell d story sef.

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  23. All dis runs gals will never learn onesle it happen 2 dem directly if we lk preach 2 dem dey will not learn. Now re days pple dnt learn. 4rm pple's mistake dey wnt it 2 happen 2 dem directly.I wish her God's healing but if she recover let she go again "UNILAG BABE"

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  24. Is a pity o!what u don't eat u don't. Smell.

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  25. Girls of nowadays would never learn. From Apapa to VI. A guy u barely know. What if the guy was a ritual kille? Na wa o. Unto say dem wan fix brazillian hair, use Bold 600, carry color blockin handbags n be formin big girl round d whole campus. Shouldn't u have learnt from Cynthia's story. U berra start start thankin God u are alive. I wish speedy recovery and hope dat u will start to use ur brain well.

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  26. Ladun! why release the girls name and withhold the guy's? I just don't get it! It's obvious the guy is guilty, yet u refuse to release his name!
    For all you babes too!, do you ever learn? Haven't you heard enough gist lately? even if u are tripping for the guy, can't u meet in a public place?
    And for every1 condemning the girl, will your condemnation heal her or undo the deed that has been done? How come nobody is saying anything about the guy that actually committed an offense here! I know the girl put herself in that position but does it justify the act of the guy? All of you are quick to shout jungle justice in some cases but what is the difference btw u and Aluu community!! How many of you here have been screaming LUCA LUCA on this blog? I'm sure most of you will agree to meet him if he says he is in the country or u are in the UK.(No offense intended to him). When condemning, pls check urself very well!
    I could have done this some years back when I was younger but I def will not do this now! I remember almost visiting a guy (I met on fcbk) in Manchester when i went for my Hols in the Uk one time and I was staying in London. Common sense stopped me then, but I really wanted to! Some people just always believe the best in people and it is sad that people take their Naivety(some may call it stupidity) for granted.
    I hope the girl gets better, and I know she has learnt her lesson!

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    1. No one is saying making friends on the Social media is bad but one must apply common sense to it. I met my boy friend on FB I never visited him at home or went out alone with him. The first time I saw him after chatting for months was in his office, at a popular company. I only met him in public places. He met my family, met his parents and 2 sisters, thoroughly checked him out before i finally went to his flat. It is only when greed is involved that girls are in a hurry to go away with strange men

      Why should we blame the boy? The girl has admitted flinging herself down from a third floor? Did he force her to the club or his home? The girl has sole responsibility for the situation she's found herself in. If she didn't learn from Cynthia's case and others, I doubt she will even learn from this.

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  27. Yu anonymous that is talking abt igbo gals, is it only igbo gals that likes money or don't yu like money? The previous one found stack naked, is she an igbo gal? Yu don't stereotype like that. Its individual choice. A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ as for that chick, wen will yu ever learn, would have said dis will serve as a deterrant to others, but it won't, bcos Cynthia's case didn't. I only pray they live to tell the story. Get well soon babes.

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  28. different folks, a friend met her hubby on facebook, and now they are married, girl is preparing t join him and this guy is from a respectable home.

    may God push us all to safety at all times

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  29. Poor girl. Nigerian ladies need to understand that our men act like wild beast where sex is concerned. Pls do not naively follow a guy home if u have no intention of having sex with him because as far as dial block head is concerned, the moment you follow him home, that is the moment you consent to sex. They are not like men abroad who would respect your wish if u say no even after opening your leg.

    Pls let's be wise, there is no protection for vulnerable women in this country so do all u can to stay safe. Only follow a man home if u know u are ready for straff.

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  30. Hw could she have followed a guy she meet on facebook to a club and then to his house?{she should ve looked for somewhere else to sleep} And she expects the guy won't ask her for sex?? Common! 1+1=2! I am menstruating gimmicks no longer work! Rule number 1} for every smart lady! Never be in an enclosed,private( his crib,hotel,lonely road e.t.c), secluded area with a guy u don't wanna have sex with!! I repeat never! Even if u can fight karate,or takwado! It will save u the sweat!

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  31. @anon 8.50 u r an idiot for calling igbo girls cheap....i wont desend to ur level by calling yoruba girls names...its obvious u ve no exposure whatsoever..scum of the earth like u...yes i said it!!!

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    1. When you said it nko,se won fun e ni trophy?by replying people like anon 8:50 only mean you care about what they say but silence is still the best answer for a fool.

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    2. U already hv desend lower dan her level by mentionin yoruba cos u dnt knw if she is yoruba she might be Edo or any oda tribe. Naija I hail

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    3. U already hv desend lower dan her level by mentionin yoruba cos u dnt knw if she is yoruba she might be Edo or any oda tribe. Naija I hail

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  32. smtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!a word 4rm luca 2 all dese sensless girls puleeeeeeeeas??????????

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    1. Sorry Yinka all you do to all topic is hiss and call on luca to come and say something.could it be that you do not have intellectual capacity to contribute to anything.just curious.

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  33. Is just a pity that most girls refused to learn, pls be conscious of what u do and where you go.quick recovering girl

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  34. Silly girl, instead of her to insist on a condom. Jumping from the third floor just because a guy asked for sex, except shes still a virgin. Which i doubt!

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  35. @anon 08:50, must u sound tribalistic? Can't u comment on d situation at hand and move on? Its only God that can save you. U are just sick.

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  36. Make una no vex. Please what does "setting P" mean. I am middle aged so I no understand.

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  37. Shebi na the book when your parents send you go read for school be that? Naim better for am. Silly girl. Instead of make you meet am for open marketplace like palms, you go meet am for nightclub for apapa, she get luck say no be ritualist self. Dem for use her eyes for money rituals. Anuofia!

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  38. Biko, what does "straffe" mean? My teenage son uses the term when talking with his friends. I don't understand.

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    1. Buhahahahahaha. Your teenage son has started nacking. Guess you don't know what nacking is either. Sorry o.

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    2. Maam, it means fuck.

      Your teenage son has started fucking.

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    3. WONU: lol! Ur teenage son is nw a man hope ur hv enuf wrapper for house. Handle him gently o

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    4. Hah!
      U guys shudnt av told her.
      Buhahah.
      Fuck up.

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  39. This is so crazy. Why do we continue to expose victims and protect criminals?

    Men need to realize no means no. Once a girl says no,let her be. It is not by force.

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    1. Thank you ooo!!!!! We are blaming the victim and setting the rapist free. Naija men will aalways act like animals cause we women always absolve them. Women, start defending yourselves o. Don't join these men in tearing us down

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  40. Sad bt these girls dnt hear word. Pls click d link below http://iearn123.com/ref.php?page=act/ref&invcod=53047

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  41. So sad people hv sad stories to tell abt meeting on facebook. Met my bf on facebook in 2008 and our relatnship is so strong.m still in school. Else we wld v gotten married. Thnk God shez alive.

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    1. You are so right, I met my husband on nairaland...we've been married 2 yesterday and now have a child. He's the best man for me and trust me when I say I kisses enough frogs before he came.

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  42. Please ignore these facebook happy ending romance stories people are posting here. They got lucky but you may be unlucky and end up dead. You wanna gamble your life away, go ahead. I beg better safe than sorry, you date people you have some kind of link with e.g mutual friends, mutual work place etc Someway of vouching for who they really are.

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  43. meeting on Facebook is not the issue here, a friend of my elder bro met his present wife on hi5 almost ten years ago. he was living in the uk and the lady in america like play like play midnight calls and texts all of us yabbing him he went to see the lady for the first time in america and stayed a couple of weeks long story short they got married and have 2 kids later moved back to nigeria the girls father even gave them a plot of land in lekki area free of charge..

    wherever you meet a total stranger,either in a club,party,church or online there are some basic safeguards one has to keep in mind which the girl certainly didn't.
    thank GOD the guy has a morally upstanding mother who has done the right thing..
    wonder why the girl lied that the guy pushed him though?

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  44. @luca,always know say ur word na gbam gbam!

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  45. Making friends on the Social media is not a bad one but we all need to be very careful. It has also been advised to meet in a very crowded environment for so many times before honoring such invite. Ladies we really don’t need to go visiting, do some real findings before planning to do so. I have friends that I meet on Facebook and Twitter since 2002 and we are still communicating very well without seeing each other. We even refer friends to friends to do business with them and all are doing real good. Before any incident will happen like this he or she will have involved, prompt or negotiated some bad talk and moves.
    I have Social Media Friends that are Happily Married with Kids, I don’t know why some people chose to promote their evil ways through these social sites and Most of us are encouraging all this movement.
    It high time to be very positive this is why a young girl on Facebook came up with an Idea to meet all your social friends physically once in a year in a very conducive avenue to combat this topic and unwind. This is the second edition
    https://www.facebook.com/events/321815294502911/?fref=ts
    This event is also conceived with the following objectives in mind:
    • A Platform to Physically Network with Our Social Media Friends.
    • Promoting Peaceful Coexistence through Intercultural Integration.
    • A Platform for Exhibiting Young Talents Act.
    • A Platform to meet with Notable Nigerian on Life Journey to Success.
    • A Platform to orient youth on the Important of Africa Culture.
    • A Platform against Violence, Rape and Child Labour.
    And It has been Pack with have arrayed a rich buffet of performances and Upcoming youth in music. You can check www.Facebookfriendsparty.com for more info
    A Friend Of Friends

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    1. There is no facebook and twitter in 2002.

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  46. @ Professor X, thanks for the explanation. My son will definitely be grounded for a long time. Chineke! These children will not kill me oh.

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  47. She I§ just been stupid sey she think sey †̥ђέ guy na jesus wey go spend money finish Ŋ do anifn she come shw her stupidity go club wit †̥ђέ guy alone cum go him house babe if U̶̲̥̅̊ dnt knw U̶̲̥̅̊ r really stupid. ol †̥ђέ same God wud heal U̶̲̥̅̊ fast.GRLZ abeg wise up

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  48. She I§ just been stupid sey she think sey †̥ђέ guy na jesus wey go spend money finish Ŋ do anifn she come shw her stupidity go club wit †̥ђέ guy alone cum go him house babe if U̶̲̥̅̊ dnt knw U̶̲̥̅̊ r really stupid. ol †̥ђέ same God wud heal U̶̲̥̅̊ fast.GRLZ abeg wise up

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  49. why did she follow him when he had mentioned sex?? kai young girls.

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  50. @anon 17;29
    u r bothered about her mentioning luca's name yet you rounded off on her when she didn't even address her comments to you.. struggling to get how someone just having a laugh translates to intellectual inadequacy in your own book and why its a problem for you

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  51. @luca love,u 4 nor jus answer am jooooooorrrrrrrr!!we no really get her time!!!still sha,@anon 17:29,let me nt b rude dis time,bt get dis into dat brain of urs wey ogun don take do sacrifice say:luca's comment is sweet,so sweet dat i cant jus ignore it.so if u wanna b like him???stop d hate!!!

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  52. all this small girls and their THIRST for MONEY!!! cant u manage wat u ve nd finish skool in peace??? ThankGod dey didnt use u 4 christmas goat.. hissss.. they neva learn

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  53. Anon 07 November, 2012 17:29; well said.

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  54. make una c me c trouble ooooooooooo!!!hhiiaannnnn!!!ginika nd co,if una no leave me alone ehn????sango go strike una!

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  55. Yinka Florens, U and d geh are d same. I'm sure, u'll meet up with Luca anytime, anyday! and u're here insulting the poor girl!
    I've known Ginika on blogs to be very responsible and polite, so if u've got issues with Love, free the babe! No be she dey do u!

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  56. @ Truthteller, The guy is not guity until proven. They said the lady in question jumped. What was she thinking? Guy meet girl, invite girl to house to do what? Ladies should pls learn

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  57. Good for her, she is suffering because of her stupidity. Idiot.

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  58. @truthteller,dat means na una 2 d sango go strike.smtchhhheeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww!!?.rubbish!!

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  59. Thanks Truthteller. Will henceforth ignore that Sango worshipper. Won't belittle myself anymore!

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  60. I beg to differ with everyone blaming the lady. Men need to learn to discipline that little monster..I was a victim in a relatively similar incidence.....

    On invitation, I went to a male colleague of 3 years house for a chat on his new business venture and the possibility of us working together. 30 mins into our meeting, he started moving closer and feeling cozy. I immediately rounded up the conversation and fled for dear life. If he raped me in this instance, I bet the lot of you would have said I am to blame because I went to his house. Arrant nonsense....It could happen to anyone...I'm one of those ladies who has never been to a suitor's house, I always meets guys in open space but this was different as I thought we'd developed a good working relationship and during those years he came across as a gentleman who was different from the pack of wolves.
    Ladies are surely their own worst enemies.... Instead of us to stand together with one voice to fight this animal .... We're busy attacking her. Shame on us.

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  61. i blame her for following someone she barely knows back to his house, haven't they learnt anything from what's being happening these days?? meeting people on social media is quite dangerous and where was the guy's mum when the girl was screaming and following a stranger home is stupid thing to do

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