Friday, December 21, 2012

36-Year-Old Virgin Reveals the Secrets to Practicing Abstinence

Practicing abstinence is probably one of the most challenging things to do. Your mind, spirit, and body are constantly in conflict as you decide which one (or two) is the most accurate.

Aside from the benefits of practicing abstinence that are taught in the Christian faith, refraining from sex has been scientifically proven to be successful for women who are seeking marriage. Scientists believe women who “play hard to get” are able to assess a man who will stick by her side during pregnancy.


Forty-three-year-old Lakita Garth was a 36-year-old virgin in 2005 when she kissed her boyfriend-turned-husband for the first time. Garth has gone public about her 36 years of virginity and is now helping other women around the world learn how to refrain from sex prior to marriage.

Excerpts from her interview are below:

    On Her Family’s Influence on Her Choice:

    In my family, if you had sex outside of marriage, someone got married, or someone got shot! I come from a line of Christians that believe your faith must impact the culture. It has to go farther than your personal relationship with Christ.

    On Choosing a Mate that Is Not Into the Church:

    You can’t be the key to his spiritual maturity.

    Her Advice to Singles:

    To be single was to be undistracted in my devotion to God. Keep your options open. God’s perfect mate for you may not look or sound like your ‘fantasy mate’.

One commenter with the user name “Chris” did not agree with Garth’s advice. He responded to her interview saying: “The Bible does not make any of the claims that this article makes about sexual purity before marriage. The abstinence model of Christianity is an inherited tradition and not a hard and fast line which the Bible draws. “Don’t have sex before marriage!” they say. Why? The Bible says we should abstain from “sexual immorality.” What is sexual immorality? “Sex before marriage,” they say. Says who? It is a tradition, not an inviolable maxim — a tradition which made sense in earlier cultures where everyone married AND they did so at a young age. Sex before marriage is certainly a risky venture, but articles like these unnecessarily shame devoted lovers who have not yet overcome the logistical hurdles of holding a wedding. In all honesty, the girl in this article sounds totally self-absorbed/self-righteous, some of the most disgusting traits for a Christian to have. We should NOT be holding her up as a model for Christian women.”

61 comments:

  1. Whaoo,wish some of our nigerian omen can be like that. I pray so.
    www.informationnaija.com

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    1. Nigerian men nko? The bible said make dem knack abi??? Abeg sharrap dere. If naija men want virgins then they should stop fornicating with women and raping small girls and hold themselves.

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  2. This is a Big lie.. How can u be a virgin for 36 year?? Abeg Body no b wood o.

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    1. Not eveeybody is a slut like you dear.

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    2. Baby Gee †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ fact that u are incapable of abstainig does not make her a liar,

      I won't totally condenm Sex before marriage,since it is not spelt out in †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ bible in black and white, it should be beteewn a person,his conscience and God. To each his own. My opinion

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    3. search "fornication" in your e-bible21 December, 2012 14:57

      Mark7:21-23, For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, Thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and defile the man.

      Act15:29 That ye abstain from meats offered to idols, and from blood, and from things strangled, and from fornication: from which if ye keep yourselves, ye shall do well. Fare ye well.

      1cor 10:8, 1cor7:2, 1cor6:18

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    4. BabyGee that was rather a dumb comment

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    5. baby goat aka ivory chi, i thought you had been chased away. you are back with your idiotic self.

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  3. whoa nice tips from you guys.... more gist here at www.gistyinka.com

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  4. Be Careful Chris about the things misunderstand because it will rub you of your life free of guilt...

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  5. The last paragraph of this article hits the nail on the head. People claim to know the bible, but in all honesty, they don't. There is no where in the bible that talk about sex before marriage.

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    1. Smh... Is there a place in d bible that says Boys don't fuck ur mother? Y u no come dey fuck ur mama??.. U see what I mean now..The lord talks in parables.. U need d wisdom of God to understand

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    2. The bible says abstain 4rm Fornication. Fornication means hvn sex wit sm1 u r not legally married 2. And d bible went futher 2 say those hu do will not inherit God's kingdom. Its actually a graveous sin! Jst so u know!

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    3. some people will say anything to justify their actions and in the process end up displaying their ignorance. how can u say the Bible doesnt ask us not to refrain from premarital sex? doesnt it say we shouldnt fornicate? and what is fornication?

      if u want to engage in premarital sex, do so. nobody is stopping u. but dont try and justify ur actions because it is a sin and its contrary to God's word. simple.

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  6. Yes o!!abeg girls,make una no furk b4 marriage o!

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    1. Are girls fucking themselves? Men nko?

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  7. See jealousy oh!

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  8. Ladun it's obvious the side you're pitching your tent!!..but remember black is black and white, white!!!

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    1. Can you make us understand

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    2. Exactly, out of the comments there, she copied the one that gives her an excuse.

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  9. So wheee is the secret? This Story is not complete

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  10. Wareva baby! God does not discriminate between virgins ąπϑ non virgins. Its not a pass to heaven. Sexual immorality is not the only sin. Righteousness is all encompassing.

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    1. U sound like u like consoling yourself.. People,let's face it, wetin no goood no good.. Shikena! Which one is God no dey descriminate and no be pass for heaven.. U think God na fool? Why will he punish person wey get one sin and person wey get 500 sins d same way.. Strive to be Good.. God sees d heart.. no dey console yourslf by saying sin na sin o.. God help us all

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    2. Be not decieved God says Adulterers and Fornicators I will judge!

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  11. Chris is Dumb

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  12. Sex before marriage is wrong

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  13. Maybe she doesn't have clits

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  14. At 36yrs uve not rode a dick?! U̶̲̥̅̊ don't knw wht ure missing sweetheart!
    Goldfish

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    1. Is life all about that? Missing what?

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    2. Abi oooh my brother what is she missing unna help to ask am , dirty human being .

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  15. Virginity is scares this days imagine a high school in ajuwon they have 300 pupils that are female about 30 of them is virgin its so crazy this day! Get on www.hotnaijaparties.blogspot.com

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    1. Virginity is scares like ur dead english is scary

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    2. Seun seun! Chai this ur English is capable of circumcising somebody sef!

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  16. Wat is fornication?sleeping wif d person u ar not married to and God sed do not fornicate.there4 aving sex b4 marriage is fornication nd its a sin.so read ur bible nd digest.
    I tank God for giving me d grace 2 celibate.

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  17. Why is the pressure only on women tho! Do they fuck themselves????

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    1. Abeg ask them o. The bible said men and women, but naija men no go hear that one

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  18. She is a virgin at 36yrs, make she park well,
    Who asked her? Make she dey suffer herself there

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  19. For those if u that think sex before marriage is not mentioned in the Bible, read this...

    Galatians 5:19-21 KJV
    Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery,FORNICATORS, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

    The Web definition of FORNICATION is
    Voluntary sexual intercourse between persons not married to each other.

    Pls do big be deceived, there many places fornication is mentioned in the Bible and it is a sin. Except we have another definition for fornication. Be warned, God is not mocked...study your Bible to show urself approved. If you need more verses, let me know, I will search them out and copy n pate here for u to see.

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  20. So in 36 years of life, your greatest accomplishment worth talking about is that you are a virgin?

    *claps for the basic bitches*

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    1. Confused hermaphrodite like u won't be able to understand this simple concept

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  21. Ginika my dear, you can learn a lot from this woman. Starting by shutting those legs that lead to your canal. Deep face.

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    1. Troglodyte. Suswam's bitch. I bet you were in Kaduna yesterday on your black knees. Ekwuensu!

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    2. LMAO. 0 - 1

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  22. I didn't see any secret here Ibeg.

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  23. Where are the secrets na, its Like u were much in a hurry to share chris views. Btw, fornication is still a sin, whichever way we want to twist. We shld jx pray for grace o, d spirit is willling but the flesh is weak. looking at our society, we would discover that pre marital sex has done much harm than good. Need i mention d baby mama n father syndrome. Bisi's saga. Love is even hard to find these days cos sex has beclouded our senses. How good one is in bed has become a major criteria for selecting a partner. Thats one of d reasons why there are so many failed marriages. May God help us

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    1. What about Psquare,Timaya,Terry G etc d list is endless......all fathering Babies without marriage,abeg what is bad is bad!God help us

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  24. at her age shes still bragging about being a virgin, how come she can't get a husband...

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  25. I don't have anything against sex before marriage...we,women should learn how to stick to one person and not open our legs for any guy we see....that's when it becomes immoral....shikena.

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  26. at 36 and ur a virgin, and ur happy.. no kids yet and no husband.. nawa... if ur not a nun ma dear go and marry before u have fibriod and cnt give birth.. ur too old to be happy ur a virgin pls...
    do urself some good and get a husband.. its not abt virgnity ohh....

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    1. Can u read at all? She was 36 when she got married and dat was in 2005..I sure say u no know book at all...smh4u

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  27. Are you people semi-illiterates and can't read to understand? She's no longer a Virgin and she's married now.

    "Forty-three-year-old Lakita Garth was a 36-year-old virgin in 2005 when she kissed her boyfriend-turned-husband for the first time".

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  28. She's just an attention seeker. How do we verify these her virginity claims, 7 years after?

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    1. U r a fool. Go meet am for whr she dey na. Animal!

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  29. Can you people read at all? She was 36 when she met her husband, now she is 43. Nawaa o see as body dey pepper una because she kept herself till marriage

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  30. Anon 19:57 and 20:40 you should read up †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ story before u begin to comment rubbish, she is married now but was a virgin till she was 36, dumbasses

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  31. @ anon 20:40, if you were not so upset at the headline and she didn't make you feel so infuriated about your choices, maybe you would have had time to read the article in full. The lady is married...
    Ps: majority of those dissing her openly are clearly female...google the full article and learn a thing or 2.

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  32. if u look at a man or a woman and imagine sex in ur heart, you have hadvsex.
    oya tell them dis and ask them if they were virgins.
    :D

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