What kind of man be that...it all about ME ME ME ME relationship . This kind of woman gives up all her identity blc of a man, that aint no treasure abeg , more like door mat .
U can't tell him u r hurt, u take his rudeness instead of him changing, no matter how much u hurt her she loves u. Na mumu be that Hell no, I pass
OK Socrates,we've heard U..U walk all over a chick U aren't married 2 and she sticks around..when she knows she wld b receiving whale-sized bullshit wen she finally settles down wt you..lol!!Boy!!get over yoself!!Go broke and c if she still stays around.
Don't kid urself dat its ur aura dats still keeping her wt you.
Pretty sure 88 of d 90 peepz dat liked dat comment were dudes..acting like dey deserve such gals..when U get 2 Utopia,ask for her.
A man who puts a woman through all that is a Billie Goat..... Paul if u share that thinking then u r a GOAT ooo and I pity the woman who takes all that crap listed above . It should not be okay for a man to put a woman through such shit. Precious treasure or not. You shouldn't find out if she can do what is listed blc she should be in that position in the first place .
****Learn to appreciate a woman for what she is worth not because she takes your bullshit
Yeah that's an ideal woman but not all men can see beyond their noses. Don't ever throw a Treasure at a dog, it will never know its value. Good talk Paul.
You are so right. Apart from sounding uneducated, he sounds so crude. Money miss road oshi. Lola, I don't know what u saw in this unrefined ibo boy, afterall u have a job. You r on ur own if this is d man u call or wanna call a husband.
*pls allow me rant* fuck off bitch or dog! Pick one! Who the hell is rude??? If peter or paul, whoever the fuck he is, wants a doormat, he should take bus to CMS and enter Eko market! The fuck!!!!!!! Who are women??? Are we here to serve men??? We are here to complement 'em! And he's lucky to find a good one, he better suck up his bullshit and appreciate and quit being a taker! Watch Jill Scott in Why Did I Get Married and STFU!!! Call me rude and watch me slam you again! Porous brain!
abeg forget dat thing! na your money she want chop.precious treasure indeed. open your eyes, if you weren't as rich as you are, no woman will take these shits from you-let the truth be said as it is biko
Seconded. The girl is taking all the shit because this guy is loaded. If this guy is not loaded, the girl would have walked long time ago. It amazes me why some men dont get this. They only get it when they loses their wealth and their loving partner then decided to walk away. This guy thinks this girl is taking all the shit because the girl loves him. This guy is indeed a sucker. You lose your fame and your wealth and lets see whether the girl will not leave your sorry ass.
Hummmm ok, I don hear. this is what i call "Malignant narcissism" . What kind of relationship puts a woman through this to establish she is a keeper.
While the man is all about Me me me me myself and me Me me me me myself and me Me me me me myself and me Me me me me myself and me Me me me me myself and me Me me me me myself and me Me me me me myself and me
You must be one very selfish man. It has to be all about you isn't it? Try and be a normal guy without all the money and fame, let us see if this your shakara will last one more minute. Chei women have suffered no be small. Nonsense and ingredient
Lets face it, wat did he say dat "we" talking to d females now haven't done @least one of? I remember sleeping @ my boyfriend's (now husband btw) @ d expense of my parents annoyance.... I remember him cheating wit his ex wen we 1st met, he is still making up for it cos I remind him how I wanted to leave him den every chance I get, despite d fact dat I cheated too but he Neva knew about it! Basically my point is we make sacrifices wen we love subconsciously, it doesn't make us fools.... Stop acting y'all & let's face wat is. Except u pple are single young girls, who still feel I can't do dis or take dat! Wait till u are 26 & single, u'll hold on to dat man dat loves u despite his being human therefore making mistakes once ry while. In d end, we do too, don't we? Ladun post dis my long story oooo...l took time off work 2 type dis verse,lol
BUT THERE ARE OTHER WAYS IN WHICH YOU CAN GET A MAN
IE ASK GOD TO GIVE YOU A GOOD ONE
I PITY YOU..IT IS BETTER TO BE 26 AND SINGLE THAT TO BE MARRIED AT 22 TO A MAN FROM HELL AND NO RESPECT.
YES, I HAVE MADE MANY SACRIFICES OUT OF LOVE, FOR MY MAN... BUT AT THE SAME TIME HE RESPECTS ME , MY EMOTIONS, MY FEELINGS AND AS HIS WOMAN.
IN LIFE WHAT YOU SETTLE FOR IS WHAT YOU WILL GET, AS YOU MAKE YOUR BED YOU WILL LIE ON IT....SO SIMPLE YET SO TRUE....CONTINUE MAKING EXCUSES THERE...I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW FAR IT WILL GET YOU :)
I'm sure he copied and pasted this ish. SMH! Which kain silly woman is this that doesn't know when to leave a man that makes he feel like that in the first place. Na wa o!! To any woman out there who is like this....I bow oh! Cos na suffering and smiling you don resign your life to. SMH!
Once the first 'rule' I saw involved breaking Gods commandment in honoring your parents, I knew this was gonna be stupid advice. I wasn't wrong. Class really cannot be bought.
dis dude is a joker! U ar lookin 4 a dundie united abi,kip searchin. If u had a sista wuld u alow ur tolerate such tins b4 ha guy realizes she's a princes? 'smh'.i tot u knew beta..
@ anon 19:03,pls ur write up sounds desperate.its write ups lik urs dat make people confused stick 2 silly relationshps.d reason ur defendin paul's point is cos u sef get 4 body.lik u sed 'u too cheated'
@ anon 19:03,pls ur write up sounds desperate.its write ups lik urs dat make people confused stick 2 silly relationshps.d reason ur defendin paul's point is cos u sef get 4 body.lik u sed 'u too cheated'
Av been married for 9yrs and a complete Opposite of what dis block head is looking for in a woman n guess my hubby loves me like no mans biz,Paul should go lookn for dat kind of woman in Somalia....
Y put d lady through this stress,if u love her u wudnt give her all dis ish,yeah sacrifices are to be made bt his descriptn makes it looks too one sided and isn't healthy,a man shouldn't give a woman crap cos she is also a human being,bt in dis day and age where chivalry is dead anytin goes
This write up is turning my stomach! Nigerian men are so egocentric. I admit that I did most of all he listed with the man I first loved but it only made me hate him when he realised I was a "treasure". Such attitude from men only repels women. Well, I'm smarter now so I'd rather stay single than be a footmat. Thank God my current man aint nothing like this
A woman like he has described has no self-esteem and isn't worthy of being the mother of children. Who except an illiterate man would want a doormat for a wife? Nonsense.
Confirmed this guy is a fool. So she has to disobey her parents for a guy that wants her to "tolerate" and "manage" the r/ship not even for mind-blowing happiness? Bloody fool. Thank u for showing ur warped mentality!
either you like it or not the guy is right considering the qualities he is carrying around i believe he is eminently qualified to pick and choose the qualities of his ideal woman..like many girls/ladies have stated both on and off this blog he is tall handsome and very rich and most likely will even grow wealthier in the foreseeable future i am sure the girls/ladies with the qualities he has listed are already chasing him up and down its just for him to choose one when a guy is used to the company of beautiful women of all races and background flocking around him then he is allowed to be a little narcissistic
See how some girls are running their mouth here! Why are all of you hiding as anonymous when you are proud of your comments? That's the problem with some of you girls that will make most of you remain single and more of home breakers and aristos for the rest of your lives.
Lol, sorry o u see it as a perfect description of your woman. I see it as lack of confidence and insecurity at its highest. why would a man do such to the woman u claim u love??? Abeg, Abeg,Abeg!!!
True Talk Ladun
ReplyDeleteOne chance
ReplyDeleteJulit
Ode!! It's a door mat your searching for. Mtcheeeeeew!!!
ReplyDeleteGod should please bless, just for this our comment ooo! Grant you long life and prosperity, Amen.
DeleteU read my mind!! Stupid guys looking for slaves in d name of girlfriends
DeleteWhat kind of man be that...it all about ME ME ME ME relationship . This kind of woman gives up all her identity blc of a man, that aint no treasure abeg , more like door mat .
ReplyDeleteU can't tell him u r hurt, u take his rudeness instead of him changing, no matter how much u hurt her she loves u. Na mumu be that
Hell no, I pass
True talk love
DeleteLol
Deletemy thought exactly!
DeleteOK Socrates,we've heard U..U walk all over a chick U aren't married 2 and she sticks around..when she knows she wld b receiving whale-sized bullshit wen she finally settles down wt you..lol!!Boy!!get over yoself!!Go broke and c if she still stays around.
ReplyDeleteDon't kid urself dat its ur aura dats still keeping her wt you.
Pretty sure 88 of d 90 peepz dat liked dat comment were dudes..acting like dey deserve such gals..when U get 2 Utopia,ask for her.
Stop being rude
DeleteLife!
DeleteHAHAHA TRUE .@STOP BEING RUDE UR A BIG ODE...R U NOT A FOOL
Delete@ neks hehehehehegehehehehehehehehehe etc
DeleteA man who puts a woman through all that is a Billie Goat..... Paul if u share that thinking then u r a GOAT ooo and I pity the woman who takes all that crap listed above . It should not be okay for a man to put a woman through such shit. Precious treasure or not.
ReplyDeleteYou shouldn't find out if she can do what is listed blc she should be in that position in the first place .
****Learn to appreciate a woman for what she is worth not because she takes your bullshit
But why must the girl become a doormat before she is appreciated?
ReplyDeleteI tire o
DeleteOne babe don carry fuck scaTter this one head for US. See as he dey sing like overfed Canary!
ReplyDeleteHehehehehehehehehehehehehe etc
DeleteAre you a learner? So you didn't know since all "this" days
ReplyDeleteRight, girls should let men walk all over them before they (men) realize the girls are "keepers". Typical nigerian man mentality. Mtsccchew.
ReplyDeleteI like
ReplyDeleteEurrrgh, where do I start.
ReplyDeleteWell, whoever dates/marries this one is walking into hell.
ReplyDeleteYeah that's an ideal woman but not all men can see beyond their noses. Don't ever throw a Treasure at a dog, it will never know its value. Good talk Paul.
ReplyDeleteTaaa!
DeleteHmmm,I treat my man like dat but he still broke up wiv me.
ReplyDeleteTHATS WHY UR AN ODE NA....
Deleteheheheheheehehehehehehehehehe etc
DeleteHahahahaha @ anonymous 11:17
DeleteFC -
ReplyDeleteOk! What kind of girl do you marry??
that, at the top of your list, i disagree! totally!
ReplyDeleteIn other words, dude is advicing men to stay with any that makes a good doormat.
ReplyDeleteKeep it up!
How apt!
ReplyDeleteMayowa
Nice one bro!!! God bless you!
ReplyDeleteVery Nice! This goes out to all the men that Dont appreciate wat dey have. CHI, this is 4u.
DeleteWell...,.. I'm sorry that can't work for u Paul cuz any and every girl wld do all that for u cuz ll dey'll c is ur money
ReplyDeleteKilode Paul???? What is all dis "when a girl, when a girl" story?
ReplyDeleteOde boy. So in short u want a doormat as a wife!
ReplyDeleteHe sounds very uneducated
ReplyDeleteAs in, b4 I delve into d message he s trying to pass across, lets start with his spellings and grammar....
DeleteHe is uneducated and most likely uncouth.lola dey try
Deletethey are uneducated now.
DeleteHe is uneducated but so what?
DeleteWhy is that relevant now and education is no factor in judging anyone.
You're a moron for that comment.
You are so right. Apart from sounding uneducated, he sounds so crude. Money miss road oshi. Lola, I don't know what u saw in this unrefined ibo boy, afterall u have a job. You r on ur own if this is d man u call or wanna call a husband.
Deletein other words a doormat
ReplyDeleteRUDE
Delete*pls allow me rant* fuck off bitch or dog! Pick one! Who the hell is rude??? If peter or paul, whoever the fuck he is, wants a doormat, he should take bus to CMS and enter Eko market! The fuck!!!!!!! Who are women??? Are we here to serve men??? We are here to complement 'em! And he's lucky to find a good one, he better suck up his bullshit and appreciate and quit being a taker! Watch Jill Scott in Why Did I Get Married and STFU!!! Call me rude and watch me slam you again! Porous brain!
DeleteMEEEHN THIS NEGRO SAYING RUDE..I CAN SEE UR MOTHER IS A DOOR MAT NA.. FOOL
DeletePaul, you just gave an accurate description of a doormat...smh.
ReplyDeleteabeg forget dat thing! na your money she want chop.precious treasure indeed. open your eyes, if you weren't as rich as you are, no woman will take these shits from you-let the truth be said as it is biko
ReplyDeleteSeconded. The girl is taking all the shit because this guy is loaded. If this guy is not loaded, the girl would have walked long time ago. It amazes me why some men dont get this. They only get it when they loses their wealth and their loving partner then decided to walk away. This guy thinks this girl is taking all the shit because the girl loves him. This guy is indeed a sucker. You lose your fame and your wealth and lets see whether the girl will not leave your sorry ass.
DeleteHe shld go and sit down...am sure lola is all dt nd still he hasn't proposed
ReplyDeleteLola is peter's gf not paul. Thank me later.
DeleteHe shld go and sit down...am sure lola is all dt nd still he hasn't proposed
ReplyDeleteumm..This is Paul, not peter.
DeleteHummmm ok, I don hear. this is what i call "Malignant narcissism" . What kind of relationship puts a woman through this to establish she is a keeper.
ReplyDeleteWhile the man is all about
Me me me me myself and me
Me me me me myself and me
Me me me me myself and me
Me me me me myself and me
Me me me me myself and me
Me me me me myself and me
Me me me me myself and me
Paul must have hit a nerve
DeleteYou must be one very selfish man. It has to be all about you isn't it? Try and be a normal guy without all the money and fame, let us see if this your shakara will last one more minute.
ReplyDeleteChei women have suffered no be small.
Nonsense and ingredient
Dis wan na advice abi na experience? Dat wan no be healthy relationship, abeg.
ReplyDeleteIts an experience that is d typical description of. His gf....she wil cry wen she sees dis shame
DeleteOk o.
ReplyDeleteDont let evans medical plc vacany pass u by,visit www.jobgoals.blogspot.com for details
Na wetin we dey talk here be that?
DeletePaul, you seem to be referring a doormat, not a human being.
ReplyDeleteWomen have feelings too...she can't live her entire life trying to please you!
Lola*
Lets face it, wat did he say dat "we" talking to d females now haven't done @least one of? I remember sleeping @ my boyfriend's (now husband btw) @ d expense of my parents annoyance.... I remember him cheating wit his ex wen we 1st met, he is still making up for it cos I remind him how I wanted to leave him den every chance I get, despite d fact dat I cheated too but he Neva knew about it! Basically my point is we make sacrifices wen we love subconsciously, it doesn't make us fools.... Stop acting y'all & let's face wat is. Except u pple are single young girls, who still feel I can't do dis or take dat! Wait till u are 26 & single, u'll hold on to dat man dat loves u despite his being human therefore making mistakes once ry while. In d end, we do too, don't we? Ladun post dis my long story oooo...l took time off work 2 type dis verse,lol
ReplyDeleteMy dear, you better stop reminding him. Move on. Men don't like that.
DeleteBUT THERE ARE OTHER WAYS IN WHICH YOU CAN GET A MAN
DeleteIE ASK GOD TO GIVE YOU A GOOD ONE
I PITY YOU..IT IS BETTER TO BE 26 AND SINGLE THAT TO BE MARRIED AT 22 TO A MAN FROM HELL AND NO RESPECT.
YES, I HAVE MADE MANY SACRIFICES OUT OF LOVE, FOR MY MAN... BUT AT THE SAME TIME HE RESPECTS ME , MY EMOTIONS, MY FEELINGS AND AS HIS WOMAN.
IN LIFE WHAT YOU SETTLE FOR IS WHAT YOU WILL GET, AS YOU MAKE YOUR BED YOU WILL LIE ON IT....SO SIMPLE YET SO TRUE....CONTINUE MAKING EXCUSES THERE...I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW FAR IT WILL GET YOU :)
IVORYCHI XX
Ur comment make brain Ivory chi
DeleteI'm sure he copied and pasted this ish. SMH! Which kain silly woman is this that doesn't know when to leave a man that makes he feel like that in the first place. Na wa o!! To any woman out there who is like this....I bow oh! Cos na suffering and smiling you don resign your life to. SMH!
ReplyDeleteLOL
Deletelola is peters wife abi gf not paul
ReplyDeletewell i think he's trying to say don't treat your lady like doormat...however he didn't put his points across very well
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ReplyDeleteOnce the first 'rule' I saw involved breaking Gods commandment in honoring your parents, I knew this was gonna be stupid advice. I wasn't wrong. Class really cannot be bought.
ReplyDeleteHaba@ d class jab. Me thinks it was uncalled for.
DeleteOh shut up!... like there are no classy but ignorant people
DeleteLmao
DeleteHe is talking about Anne Macaulay typical I must follow you enter grave I don't ve a life of my own woman
ReplyDeletelmfaoooo....hilarious
DeletePaul,you are looking for a doormat. And the fact that I have to disobey my parents to please you is a sign of things to come. Paul, sit down.\__
ReplyDeleteMay God forbid I lose my voice,self worth and identity because of one man who does not know my value. hian. God forbid!
dis dude is a joker! U ar lookin 4 a dundie united abi,kip searchin. If u had a sista wuld u alow ur tolerate such tins b4 ha guy realizes she's a princes? 'smh'.i tot u knew beta..
ReplyDelete@ anon 19:03,pls ur write up sounds desperate.its write ups lik urs dat make people confused stick 2 silly relationshps.d reason ur defendin paul's point is cos u sef get 4 body.lik u sed 'u too cheated'
ReplyDelete@ anon 19:03,pls ur write up sounds desperate.its write ups lik urs dat make people confused stick 2 silly relationshps.d reason ur defendin paul's point is cos u sef get 4 body.lik u sed 'u too cheated'
ReplyDeletewhat sort of rubbish talk is this?
ReplyDeleteAv been married for 9yrs and a complete Opposite of what dis block head is looking for in a woman n guess my hubby loves me like no mans biz,Paul should go lookn for dat kind of woman in Somalia....
ReplyDeletePaul hmm
ReplyDeleteBut peter is right
ReplyDeleteY put d lady through this stress,if u love her u wudnt give her all dis ish,yeah sacrifices are to be made bt his descriptn makes it looks too one sided and isn't healthy,a man shouldn't give a woman crap cos she is also a human being,bt in dis day and age where chivalry is dead anytin goes
ReplyDeleteLeave my Paul alone
ReplyDeleteIn other words you want a dummy?
ReplyDeletefa fa fa..gini? Faww!
ReplyDeleteLmsao!!!!
DeleteLadun you sure it's the real Paul Okoye?
ReplyDeletenot too sure of that
This write up is turning my stomach! Nigerian men are so egocentric. I admit that I did most of all he listed with the man I first loved but it only made me hate him when he realised I was a "treasure". Such attitude from men only repels women. Well, I'm smarter now so I'd rather stay single than be a footmat. Thank God my current man aint nothing like this
ReplyDeleteTHE FIRST ONE I DONT UNDERSTAND OO, 'DISOBEY HER PARENT TO PLEASE A MAN'?!! LIKE SERIOUSLY PAUL???
ReplyDeleteA woman like he has described has no self-esteem and isn't worthy of being the mother of children. Who except an illiterate man would want a doormat for a wife? Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteConfirmed this guy is a fool. So she has to disobey her parents for a guy that wants her to "tolerate" and "manage" the r/ship not even for mind-blowing happiness? Bloody fool. Thank u for showing ur warped mentality!
ReplyDeleteall boils down to one's opinion...
ReplyDeletePeter Of P Square Teaches Toolz & Ebuka How To Do The "Alingo" Dance At A House Party!!
Now I agree dat all pauls r doomed.
ReplyDeleteWhat else were you all expecting from an empty skull? They don't even write their songs demselves. Fucking retard looking for a doormat.
ReplyDelete@ anonymous 5:30 my thots exactly he has all this insight and he hasnt proposed?
ReplyDeletemeanwhile peter or paul they are all d same....make he advise his bro to propose to lola
ReplyDeleteeither you like it or not the guy is right considering the qualities he is carrying around i believe he is eminently qualified to pick and choose the qualities of his ideal woman..like many girls/ladies have stated both on and off this blog he is tall handsome and very rich and most likely will even grow wealthier in the foreseeable future i am sure the girls/ladies with the qualities he has listed are already chasing him up and down its just for him to choose one when a guy is used to the company of beautiful women of all races and background flocking around him then he is allowed to be a little narcissistic
ReplyDeletelike!!!
Deleteis this a little narcissistic , more like extreme madness of narcissism
Deletepaul abeg ni dis one nobi love oo, she nobi ur slave
ReplyDeleteQuestion 4 u Paul....
ReplyDeletewould u advice ur sista 2 do all diz?
check ur heart & Ansa truthfully.
Beau.Ti.Ful
See how some girls are running their mouth here! Why are all of you hiding as anonymous when you are proud of your comments? That's the problem with some of you girls that will make most of you remain single and more of home breakers and aristos for the rest of your lives.
ReplyDeleteK
ReplyDeletePeter spoke his mind. You all should free him
ReplyDeleteLol, sorry o u see it as a perfect description of your woman. I see it as lack of confidence and insecurity at its highest. why would a man do such to the woman u claim u love??? Abeg, Abeg,Abeg!!!
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