Thursday, February 21, 2013

Who wants to have sex when they’ve made love- Nse Etim's Sister Defends Her

‘Who wants to have sex when they’ve made love? I don’t. My sister who got married on Thursday, the 14th didn’t want to either… Get your minds out of the gutter lol. It’s about settling or not settling as the case may be. My sister waited 21 years to marry the one good man she had met in her teenage years. He had shown her what real love was and she wasn’t going to settle for less than that after she knew what real love was. I’m not saying everyone should wait for that one guy or one girl they loved in high school. I’m saying, when you have been with a good man, it is hard to settle for less than that. My ex kept saying I’d never find another like him and I thought, ‘but I’ve been with a good guy…’, so I knew what it felt like to be with a good person and it wasn’t the same. So today, when I think of that statement, I say Amen… when I’m particularly happy, I scream ‘AMEN’!!’
‘I went home from school to watch my sister become  the wife of the man who loves her. I was completely surrounded by love while I was home…from the way he looked and spoke to her…you know, it gave me hope. Yes, and I had never seen her so happy and I was happy and I was drunk all the time I was home. hehe! And quick update, I met someone. Let’s call him Kamara. No further info, until I have more  …anyway, I’m single and I’m four-hob dating…’
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    1. lol..ok my dear! lmao!

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    2. Funny comment

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  2. You can never please the world oh jare. Live,Laugh,Love

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  3. This kind of write up should come with Material Safety Data Sheet. Very risky and highly flammable! 21 years? That's the same time it would take to have a child and train her through University. So much wasted time. Thank God for her sha!

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    1. my sister tell me oh. 21 years! ahn ahn. i think Nse loves the guy more than he loves her. maybe he thought he was a fine boy who could get any chick. Nse shud have moved on, me i think, because this man,hmmn me i no trust am. again i say, 21 FREAKING YEARS! Why wait all those years? abi he's not pulling babes again? or is it because she's now a popular actress that he's back. anyway, whether it lasts or not, i guess for some people it's better to experience love and be with the one you love, regardless of pain or unrequited love, than to never experience love. so i wish her luck.

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    2. U must be an Engineer............lolllz

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  4. Their parents must be proud
    Nse and her lil sis have got the gift of gab
    they write very well too
    which is hard to find in Nigeria these days.

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    1. True talk...

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    2. Very true.. Love how they both write

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    3. word, good education!

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  5. Who is askin u al dis RUBBISH??? Busy body abeg go 5ny place sitdon jor

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  6. Ladun, am lost I dont understand all dese stories and pls I dont want any insults from any1 , if ure kind enough, explain all dese stuffs ladun posted here

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    1. lol! im confused myself..d title maks u think odawise..and den he contents..lik wat is dis? Nice to know dey r hapi..but wat is d Title for?! :-/

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    2. I guess we are on the same page. The title differs from the body of the message.

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    3. You need to be very deep to understand this
      you can have 'SEX' with anybody but you can only 'MAKE LOVE' with a special person, those that have "MADE LOVE" never want to have 'SEX' again cause its an awesome experience you never want to forget.
      In order words, Nse has tasted love , real deep love and she's was not ready to settle for anything less than love.
      gorrit?

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    4. they are only trying to justify the man leaving his family for Nse thats all... dont worry, the wife is very cool and not a trouble maker...very hurt but definately not a trouble maker

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    5. Ehen no one is mentioning his oyinbo wife, and son. Issokay we are waiting.

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  7. Lagos-is-my-home21 February, 2013 20:30

    Why are they trying too hard to sell this love story . First Nse published the love story (cute story but was it necessary ??) , now sister is giving us double doze of the same story , even seeing on another blog of honeymoon destination (again not necessary)...........

    Nse & family , abeg focus on your marriage , if its that solid it will shine and others will notice ,not you over selling it . Wish you HML

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    1. Lagosismyhome wa gbayi, I tire 4 Nse & her fomilic o.

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    2. Dont you get it? Nse caused the break up of this man's marriage...a man that did not give 3 fffs about her... he was her teenage love...who doesn't have teenage loves????? if we all hung around trying to get back our first loves, do you know how many home would be wrecked?????
      Nse sister...give it a rest booooo...we know the real story and since that is the life these nollywood actresses live, we are not surprised...

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  8. Hmmm....sounds like she's still drunk.

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  9. What is this nonsense?

    Trying to get your 15mins off your sister's wedding? Take a seat please.

    You found a man? Wonderful, do we need to know? absolutely not!

    I'm happy for Nse btw.

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    1. My thots exactly. Who is she? Who send am message?

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    2. Don't mind d girl. Before u know it, she too ll wanna be called a celeb. Parrot!! Mtcheeew.....

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  10. so, should I start singing or crying?

    Shrek

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  11. Not a good write up #IMO

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  12. Wat da fuck is dis??
    Wat I just read doesn't make sense!
    It was like 10 different stories copied and pasted in2 1 paragraph!
    Ladun wr did u get dis shit from?
    I wanna scream ryt now 4 wasting my seconds reading dis senselessness!
    Geeeeeezzzzzz ladun!
    And I HATE dat second pic!
    Both of dem r 2 exposed and 2 comfy wif her boobs out and all!
    Dey look like dey fucked eachother after whoeva took d pic left!
    I smell sex thru my fone from dat second pic!
    Nse ur sis has fucked ur man!
    Its so obvious!
    Billie jean

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    1. Billie you're IMPOSSIBLE!!!

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    2. Billie!!!! But ur right with d statement "Both of dem r 2 exposed and 2 comfy wif her boobs out and all!" I thot dat pic was a bit awkward too

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    3. I'll always remind you of the day you said you don't diss people shortly after Goldie passed.
      If God forbid, someone else passes now you'll start shedding hot crocodile tears and claim never to have dissed them.
      You need help.
      And I don't blame you for thinking her sis has slept with the man... Its obviously something you can do

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    4. I'll always remind you of the day you said you don't diss people shortly after Goldie passed.
      If God forbid, someone else passes now you'll start shedding hot crocodile tears and claim never to have dissed them.
      You need help.
      And I don't blame you for thinking her sis has slept with the man... Its obviously something you can do

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    5. Biko leave Billie Jean! Lol! She seems like someone I'd hang out in real life hehehe! She's crazeecool!!....Pxx

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    6. Billie jean is very right tho. Hehe

      That second pic is a NO NO! Very somehow! More like lovers... too loose.

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  13. Pls,wat is she saying?! Can't make head nor tail of it.smh

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  14. Beautiful feelings when you meet the one. Hmmmm.

    Mayowa

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  15. I hope he keeps her happy.

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    1. no man or woman can EVER make a significant other happy.
      get your happiness from God and stop expecting too much from mere mortals!

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  16. I hope he keeps her happy.

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  17. Interesting

    Michael freesoul thinks

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  18. Abeg, mk we hear word, hiss. Dat pic of u n nse's husband is so indecent!

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  19. imbibe and practise all the qualities your big sis exhibited and the kind of man she is married to will look for you and sweep you off your feet..same as making money is not by mouth,ending up with true love takes 2 people who are morally and emotionally upright

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    1. luca what is happening to you in 2013?
      you sound so sweet............................

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    2. Clap for yourself , Mr I must comment on everything. What sense have you made?

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    3. kindly keep your mouth shut,you are giving me a migraine

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    1. me sef dey lost o...why the story?

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  21. Nawaaaaaao!who be dis na?celebrity or wat?sha its a razz world we live in now,anyone can turn celebrity ova nite.see her like Asa d musician.I like Nse thou.

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  23. Na so e dey take start. Nse, watch ur back ibeg.

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  24. Defence? Ladun ladun ladun! Wetin be your own defence for the misleading headline?

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  25. I just love love love these two! Everything about them speaks real love and undiluted happiness. Their story reminds me of the Note Book.

    *sighs*
    *me too I go love oh*
    *off to go watch The Note Book*
    *sighs again*

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    1. half of the people on this website don't understand this story
      I just cant get it.
      I am not sure, could it be that exposure is not enough, otherwise how do we explain why it feels like they are trying to understand advanced further maths ?

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    2. Which kain love? Abegiii!

      Anywayz,howz tata? Am sure he/she is big now...cheers

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    3. @08:45, Lol. I tried to understand it the love way.

      @10:21, Looooool. My bambino is doing well. He's growing an inch everyday

      **kisses**

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  26. Yeah I totally believe the drunk part or what else can be the explanation for your boobies almost jumping out of your singlet and posing like so with your brother in law. Abeg oh! We don't want any stories.

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  27. Han? Sorry? U say??

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  28. Who is dis one seeking 4 attention, abeg Ladun don't annoy me by bringing stories of pple who want to b famous by force. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeew

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  29. wth? Ladun u're such a dunce! U obviously got this from her blog or something...where is the link nah?! Famzing as if u got it from the horse's mouth! Bush pikin.

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  30. Hmmmm @ that second picture. Hmmm. Hmmm oh.

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  31. Nse and family should give it a rest. All this noise. After 6months now, tori go enter the matter. Instead of you guys to keep it calm. From the story we already know the guy wasnt too keen. Maybe Nse has been begging for the marriage. Afterall he broke off the engagement once. Also, please stop trying to sell the story like she was celibate for 21yrs. The girl dey dig wella now. So wetin be all this plenty talk?

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  32. Dude must be a big prize to the whole etim family. The way they are acting is too desperate. Their parents need to call them to order. When you do all this, and the man has never even said a word, then NSE is doing the loving, and the guy is just obviously going along from pressure. Calm down abeg. All this noise. Ti ewu ba'n be loko longe nko?

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    1. Hahhhahahahah, this had me on d ground. Too funny

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    2. exactly. she sent him flowers, wine and a card to thank him for proposing. Read her story.

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    3. I still dey maintain say this guy don marry born plenty pickin...nse was just lurking in the shadows hoping he will come round..well he has abandoned his family for you now Nse...are you happy??????????/ time will tell......... if all of us kept in touch with our teenage loves for 21 years, how wont the yeye guys think thats true love????? also when there is money and fame involved, alot of men can be really weak.. stop trying to defend your sister...SHE ACTED AS A CATALYST TO BREAK UP HIS MARRIAGE AND CAUSE HIS FAMILY HEARTACHE....and now she wants to act like it all lovey dobey...time will tell....

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  33. Is Nse 38, cos she said she started dating the guy at age 17. If she waited 21 yrs to marry him, that means she is 38. BTW, is Nse's sister sleeping with Nse's man, or what's up with the boobs display.

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    1. Hahahahaha cheap pealie don change picture to a cheaper and razzer one*cheap tinz*

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  35. Haters haba, u guys r obviously jealous and d idiot dat said waste of time, it isn't , go get a life .

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  36. Is she looking for fame? And wots our business if d guy went away for 21yrs caame bck n married her, hope she knws pple change? A man dat cancelled d engagement last year n recalled it dis year ,well dats her prob! I pray it lasts n hope she's reduced her high rate of smoking tho .

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  37. attention seeker! so Nse is 37 Or 38 and she knew love at 17. Please go and rest. No relationship worked now her former oga that has probably been married b4 returns. The fact that she is a star helped too.

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    1. Anon 07:05.....you got it right mate!

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  38. All of you are fools. She owns a blog, and writes stuff. Visit the blog www.myhandismine.wordpress.com before you kill her. Devils.

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  39. But why are they so overwhelmed ? Did they think she was too old to get husband , I don't understand this excitement , we thank God on your behalf but enough aaaaabeg .

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    1. Hahahahahah. You guys won't kill someone with laugh on this blog

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    2. Its not excitement, its fear....
      they are scared when the real story of how Nse was committing adultery with the married man and facilitated his marriage breakdown comes out, it would be too shameful.
      The wife is just a quiet woman who is trying to protect her kids...so Nse ride on hian... hopefully the man real first love would come back for him, cause you grieve and eventually steal him away from you.... shikena

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    3. my thought exactly

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  40. Abeg make una leave my hilariously mean Bille goat joor. Wetin dey worry una? Bille don't mind dem..... U called a spade a spade. BTW, TUEH!!!! @ dat second pic.... See her boobs for outside.

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  41. Na wo o. I don tire for deir story. Real love isn't spoken but felt. I don't get why ds family is tryn to mk ds guy look so perfect in d eyes of we nigerians

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  42. Let me laugh first....hahahahahahahahahahaha. Its funny how people that are a day old in marriage suddenly becomes a role model for other people. Honey,come back when they are twenty years old in this marriage and write that same piece then I will be your Fan all the way. You really want to wait for 21 years for a man and 21 years of dating other men and having an abortion while you wait for your childhood sweetheart,and you get him then what.....??? He will want kids right...so when that happens and you are too advanced medically to give him one,then you start screaming "HOw ALL MEN are WicKed". Nse is just a day old in marriage so calm your nipples....If it works for her,doesn't mean it will work for you. So before you start gushing,allow Nse's dopamine and throbbing clitoris to cool off so she can experience LOVE. Miss Nse sister...keep waiting ooo,dnt go and marry,follow Nse's footsteps then you will realise that shit may not work for you. MOVEMENT

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  43. A sweet love story, check out this blog www.singlelagosbabe.blogspot.com

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  44. Zinnia:
    Oladunni, you took this piece from her blog. You could have indicated that nao.

    Please always credit your source; that's the proper thing to do. Thanks!

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  45. That second picture is so inappropriate. Why is Nse's sister hanging out with him with her boobs popping out? Hope she doesn't have the hots for him too. Hmmmmm.........

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  46. Intersting we dont all have to wait though, and i really dont think she was waiting oh .. why wud anyone.. he just came along

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